My Girlfriend Won't Have Sex With Me - What should I Do?
Dear Dr. Frankie:
My girlfriend and I have been together just over a year and living together for about 6 months. We were friends before we ever started dating and waited a while before we had sex for the first time.
When we started having sex, it was great. However, for the past 4 months, I’ve been feeling very frustrated because I want to have sex and she doesn’t. It’s been so frustrating, that I’m now totally daunted by the task of asking.
When I ask, she uses special occasions (knowing we may get tipsy) as an excuse to wait it out. Or, she flat out tells me no, rejecting me, seriously deflating my ego. When I ask if she's still attracted to me, she gets an attitude like it's a stupid question.
She's told me numerous stories of being cheated on in the past and I could never understand why girls had done this to her but, as bad as it sounds, I'm starting to understand how unfulfilled they probably were.
I don’t know what to do.I've pretty much had to resort to satisfying myself on a regular basis because I don't even want to face rejection from my own mate.
Am I overreacting or putting too much emphasis on sex?
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