• Admin
    January 3, 2017
    Many of us have done it at one time or another. We found ourselves bright eyed and bushy tailed over a straight girl. Well, I know I have. Why, oh why, do we do it to ourselves? Because it's taboo? It's a challenge? Or we just can't help ourselves because she is---well-- TOOOO DARN FINE!! Most likely it's--ALL OF THE ABOVE. The problem isn't so much in the "CRUSH" aspect of it--that's only natural--especially if she's sweet and REALLY your type. But the problem lies more in the hoping and wishing it's going to turn into something more than what it may eventually become.

    Don't get me wrong, there have been many a straight girl that decided they REALLY liked the other side of the rainbow -- BUT, BUT BUT that's because there has always been an OPEN aspect of their sexuality to begin with. Either they had repressed it for a long time and are NOW willing to explore it--OR they were ALWAYS willing to explore it IF the opportunity arose--and KNOCK KNOCK--here YOU are!!

  • Admin
    January 3, 2017
    Dear Dr. Frankie:

    My girlfriend and I have been together just over a year and living together for about 6 months. We were friends before we ever started dating and waited a while before we had sex for the first time.

    When we started having sex, it was great. However, for the past 4 months, I’ve been feeling very frustrated because I want to have sex and she doesn’t. It’s been so frustrating, that I’m now totally daunted by the task of asking.
    When I ask, she uses special occasions (knowing we may get tipsy) as an excuse to wait it out. Or, she flat out tells me no, rejecting me, seriously deflating my ego. When I ask if she's still attracted to me, she gets an attitude like it's a stupid question.
    She's told me numerous stories of being cheated on in the past and I could never understand why girls had done this to her but, as bad as it sounds, I'm starting to understand how unfulfilled they probably were.

    I don’t know what to do.I've pretty much had to resort to satisfying myself on a regular basis because I don't even want to face rejection from my own mate.
    Am I overreacting or putting too much emphasis on sex? http://www.curvemag.com/Blogs/Dr-Frankies-Love-Seat/June-2014/My-Girlfriend-Wont-Have-Sex-With-Me-What-should-I-Do/

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